Posted On August 6, 2014 By In Dating For Men, Dating For Women, Girlzone

“21 Questions” In Adult Form


When getting to know someone, I wish it was casual to bring up the high school “21 questions” game. I know my friends and I played this often with guys/girls, so why can’t it still apply in the adult years? It’s a fun, easy and interesting way to get to know someone. Honestly, at a younger age the deepest questions were “how far have you gone with a girl/guy?” and now, you just ask the other what their preferences are (maybe). Take these questions into consideration when you’re texting someone, Tindering, and/or at a bar. Like Nike, “just do it.”

1. When’s your birthday?—-What’s your zodiac sign? (People believe in this shit)

2. What’s your favorite food?—-What restaurant do you always go to? Want to show me it one day? (Wink Wink).

3. What stores do you shop in the most?—-What’s your style in and out of the work place?

4. What’s your type?—-What’s your biggest pet peeve when it comes to dates? Seeing someone? etc.

5. What’s your favorite song?—-What music do you find yourself listening to the most?

6. Do you have myspace?—-How do you feel about social media?

7. How far have you gone with a girl/guy?—-What are your biggest turn ons?

8. What do you want to be when you’re older?—-What is one goal you must accomplish?

9. What’s your favorite movie?—-Have you ever seen _____? (this question can really stay the same)

10. Where is your favorite place to vacation?—-If you could live anywhere, where would it be?

11. Looks or smarts?—-Would you rather be really rich and ugly or really good looking and dumb?

12. Who is your favorite celebrity?—-If you could spend one day with someone famous, who would it be?

13. What’s your favorite thing to do?—-What makes you smile the most?

14. How many siblings do you have?—-What’s your family like?

15. Have you ever snuck out?—-What is the craziest, most exhilarating thing you have ever done in your life?

16. What do you do for fun?—-What do you like to do on your off time? Any hobbies?

17. What posters do you have in your room?—-What celebs do you follow up the most? (if any…maybe athletes?)

18. Do you like sports?—-Fall is coming up, are you into Sunday Night Football? (corny, IK!)

19. Have you ever drank before?—-Do you prefer beer or liquor?

20. Have you ever had a boyfriend/girlfriend?—-Do you see yourself settling down anytime soon? (reword it, possibly?)

21. Wanna come over? My parents aren’t home…—-Maybe we can meet up one day soon? (don’t rush ANYTHING ever).


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Erika is currently a student at Iona College and she calls Long Island her homeland. Erika is a pop culture enthusiast and a lover of all things fashion, and hopes to one day become the next Giuliana Rancic and have her own E! Network series. When she's not blogging on her personal page,, she enjoys half caff coffees, pinning her dream wedding on Pinterest and teaching people how to dougie. Follow her on Instagram: erikastern and Twitter: erikastern_